I know, I know. It’s been a hot minute, but here I am! Alive and well! And missing you friends……
I am ALONE for the evening which is unheard of in this house! Hubby bubby took the boys to play some basketball and they couldn’t have been more excited! They love their daddy time-and I don’t hate being alone for a minute-although I find it hard to figure out what to do with all this time!
I just wanted to pop in and give you guys a quick glance of what my day was like-as I thought this was a pretty entertaining day! Prepare yourselves………
Ok-start with waking up-at 5:55am. NO bueno yall. I am not an early riser, and the reason I woke up was a TERRIBLE nightmare. I refuse to mention it here but I don’t want it to be one of those dreams I remember my whole life. But let’s just say I ended up in tears after I woke-and not so happy. Then I was awake when Dale left for work-which I HATE! Usually he kisses me and the boys and slips out-I am half awake for a split second, then back off to dream land I go! Today I had to watch him leave and that made me pitiful!
Thank goodness I had a day full of distractions to keep me from thinking about being away from him! To start off, Cashy came in my room and laid in bed with me for a bit and was ready to chat! (Love those mornings) Not long after Ford joined, and wanted to read a book that has a goofy little dance song that goes along with it. So I play the song on my phone and immediately was in a better mood! Watching them enjoy it so much just makes me giggle!
Not too much longer after the mini dance party, the boys mentioned something about the baby and I thought this would be a good opportunity to explain to them about breast-feeding. You may wonder why, but I have been trying to figure out the perfect time to explain all of these things to them. Having a newbie around is a totally foreign concept to my kids! So last week they learned where the baby comes out of ( that was hysterical) and this week they learned what the baby eats from. Let me just tell you the education they have gotten in the past couple weeks has been priceless-for me.
Cash is so excited to learn that a baby eats from “boobies” and Ford is slightly traumatized. As far as he knows, those are things that Mommy’s have that should not be seen-now all of a sudden they’re feeding a baby? To watch the little gears turn in his mind today was too funny. If you ask him to explain it back to you he won’t even begin! He just covers his face and laughs! Cash on the other hand is a different story. Just ask him. He is happy to tell you that’s the reason God gave those things to women LOL
Some people may think I shouldn’t have mentioned that to my kids, but I figure pretty soon they’re going to see it happening and I didn’t want them to wonder what was going on. Dale and I have always said will be very honest with our kids and explaining things and honestly it’s been more fun for me than anything! I kind of assumed these things would be awkward, But I think since we are starting early and explaining things honestly, when the harder topics come along later it will be easier for us as parents!
Now, that was super interesting part of the day and then we had to rush out and get to target to pick up some things before a fun photo shoot! On the way I get asked if I can pick up my grandfather and take him to dialysis. I did, of course, and that didn’t fail to be interesting either. To spare you some of the details, let’s just say I had to make two stops for a bottle of ginger ale that could have happened in the first two minutes. He was mad at me because CVS did not carry ginger ale-ends up the bottle said “Canada dry” instead of “Ginger Ale” and he assumed that that was not what he should be getting. Jeez Louise. This is my life.
After we dropped him off at his dialysis appointment, we ran home, had lunch, and I started to get ready for the photo shoot! I’ll make sure to post lots of pictures soon. This should be a fun one! And might I add, my photographer is absolutely phenomenal! She brought me Starbucks, and her husband entertained my kids the whole time we shot. It was a little mini dream come true! Shoot me a message I will send you all of her info! Believe me you want her for your next family shoot.
As soon as they walked out the door, we had to leave for swim lessons! Ford took lessons last month but cash could not complete his with Ford because of breaking his arm. This is turned out to actually be awesome for us because now Ford can put all of his new ability in to practice while cash is taking his lessons!
So we came home from swim lessons and started folding all the laundry that the husband did last night while I was gone at a work event. We finish laundry and Dale walks in the door. We attempted to go out to dinner ( which we hardly ever do!) but it took so long getting ready and having one minor setback) that we had to stop and just eat at Arby’s. The minor setback, you ask?
In the Driveway, Dale realized I had something in my hair. I assumed it was a leaf so I told him to grab it out. He attempts to get it out of my hair only to realize that it is gum! So he told me to go in and “pick it out real quick.” I made sure to let him know that that gum is not something I can just grab out of my hair.
We went to dinner anyways- gum and all, just to sit down and eat for five minutes and Cash to say he has to poop. So I run him to the bathroom and we stay in there all of 10 minutes. Mind you, this kid is having a conversation with the lady in the stall next to us the whole time She is in the bathroom. I swear.
I come back, eat some more food, then Ford has to poop! Almost the whole dinner I spent in the bathroom with kids. I’m not going to lie, it was entertaining, but I wanted to spend some time with the hubbs- Mom life though I suppose.
One of the super cute things that happened tonight though, when Dale walked in the door from work, I was in the kitchen and he walks in with a box of chocolate hidden. He looked at me and said “You don’t give a girl flowers, you give her chocolate” and handed me the cutest heart shaped box. Lord did I melt into a puddle. I told him he sure knows the way to this pregnant girl’s heart. Swoon.
Next cute thing? Besides all of the wonderful things that Ford says to me all the time, as we were leaving the restaurant he said “love you mom!” then looked at my belly and said “love you baby! ” Dale and I both melted. Then Cash followed through with the cute little “Love you baby! ” as well. I’m telling you somehow we got so fortunate with these kids. And I am so happy that Cash and baby girl have Ford as such an amazing older brother!
So as I left my kiddos and husband, I ran to pick up some paint samples to pick for baby girls room! I think I found one that I love. It only took me 40 minutes in Home Depot ( ha ha Ha that girl totally hated me) but I’m telling you it’s worth it. Pink walls could make you crazy really quick! So I want to find the perfect pale pink that won’t make me nauseous looking at it after week! You know I will be sharing nursery pics with you guys as soon as we get her room up and ready. Now that may be five months after she’s born, but we’re getting there-promise- slowly but surely.
Now I’m Home. I put the paint samples on the wall. Now blogging and eating chocolate. I’m about to go try and get this gum out of my hair ( let’s hope it isn’t a nightmare- I’ve already had one of those this morning) And then going to get myself prepared for bed! At any rate, I just figured this was one of those days and I should probably fill you guys in on. Never a dull moment in this life!
Hoping everyone has a fantastic weekend and I’ll be back soon!
All the love dolls💋